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Friday, February 19, 2010

I HAVE A STALKER...AND I NEED BLOGLAND'S HELP

Hello everyone!
I hope you are all well and happy. I have been a busy girl as of the last few weeks...and have not been posting a whole lot.
Most of you all know that I do not like to put my personal affairs on this blog, but today I feel I have NO Choice....
I am taking a few moments today to announce or perhaps you should say WARN you all that there is a psycho among us. Literally. Her screen name used to be Lilsista...and now it's Amelia.
Amelia is actually my very own little sister. She has apparently stopped taking her medication and has dropped off the deep end. She is stalking and terrorizing me in a very big way. She is fabricating emails and things and mailing them all over the place. Very bad emails. click her name to get to her current blog.
Yesterday's post received one that announced her newest identity.
Should you receive a disgusting email regarding yours truly from anyone...please forward it on to gduchak@shaw.ca. That is my personal email, and I will be collecting these all for the police to take a peek at if they do not stop!
DID YA YEAR THAT TERRY ???? STOP! THIS IS YOUR LAST WARNING.
I would like to add:
PLEASE FELLOW BLOGGERS PUT PRAYERS OUT THERE FOR MY SISTER,AS SHE GETS WORSE AS THE DAYS GO BY, YOU CAN ONLY WONDER WHAT IT IS LIKE FOR HER OWN FAMILY.PLEASE PRAY FOR HER.

TERRY MOM AND DAD AND I STILL LOVE YOU EVEN THOUGH WE ARE THE BILE IN YOUR LIFE. WE HOPE YOU GET BETTER SOON.



32 comments:

The Muse said...

so sad.
and so sorry for you.
i know a bit of what you are going through. and it is not fun.

stay safe and always holding you in prayer, dear Tootsie :)

onlymehere said...

Tootsie, I'm so very sorry. This is the last thing anyone (especially you) needs. I haven't received an email but I'll inform you and send it on if I do. Good luck. Anyone who knows you knows that a mean email wouldn't come from you so I hope that gives you hope and peace to know we'll all still be your friends if we get one. :) Me

Darla said...

Well we will just pray a hedge of protection around you, your kids and your property....it would be in her best interest NOT to send anything this way...yeah, I hope you are reading this Amelia!

Stacey said...

Really? I'm so sorry you are having to deal with this. Sounds very difficult. I'll be thinking of you.

Hocking Hills Gardener said...

Well I was hoping you were just joking there Hon when I first started reading this posting. I was waiting for the punch line. How hurtful that must be for you that your little sister would do this to you. And in such a manner that leaves you feeling helpless but as Darla said we will pray a hedge of protection around you and that God will intercede in this problem. I am sure we will all help you in this matter and since getting to know you we would never believe bad about you anyway. So her bad works are not going to bear any fruit and will go back to the sender.
Amelia be very afraid girl!
Hang in there friend! This too shall pass.

Dragonfly Treasure said...

I too was waiting for the punch line..so sorry this is happening. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Hang in there, be safe and stay strong.
We love ya!
*hugs*deb

Andrea said...

Is she using links. I got an email from someone yesterday in my gmail acct. with a link. I just sent a thank you back, but have not read it yet. The person would have used the contactor button on my blog to send it.

Praying for you. Hang in there.
Hugs, andrea

Teresa @ Grammy Girlfriend said...

So sorry.....I have so been there with a sister and it was such a problem that I started moderating my comments....
And mine too is off her meds for the 1,000th time.

Be safe and keep posting....we love you
T

Sandra said...

Oh my gosh, sweet friend! I had been thinking alot about you! I wondered why you hadn't posted much! Please stay safe, Tootsie! this is scary! ((HUGS))
Sandra

Anonymous said...

THIS IS A MESSAGE FROM TOOTSIE TIMES MOM AND DAD. IF YOU RECIEVE ANY COMMENTS FROM (amelia) formerly lilsta, please disregard them. she has clearly gone off the deep end, and is off her meds. she seriously needs to see her doctor for some pills. SHE IS MENTAL. PLEASE DONT BELIEVE A WORD YOU READ, AND TOOTSIE PLEASE STAY STRONG, EVERYONE OUT THERE IS SUPPORTIVE OF YOU. THIS IS ABOUT AS BAD AS IT GETS, WHEN WE READ YOUR BLOG THIS MORNING, WE COULDNT BELIEVE SHE COULD STOOP SO LOW, ESPECIALLY WHEN SHE IS THE AVIATORS WIFE, WHOS LIFE CENTERS AROUND HER LOVING HUSBAND, CHILDREN AND GOD! I WONDER HOW MANY FOLLOWERS SHE WILL HAVE NOW, AND HOW MANY COMMENTS SHE WILL GET ON HER BLOG. SHE MAY HAVE TO CLOSE THAT ONE. I ALSO WONDER IF SHE PRAYED LAST NIGHT AND THANKED GOD FOR HER DAY, AND ASKED HIM TO HAVE A BETTER ONE TOMORROW, LIKE SHE DOES WITH HER KIDS. I WONDER, DID SHE GET UP EARLY TO HAVE COFFEE WITH HER HUSBAND THIS MORNING, AND READ HER BIBLE. I WONDER IF SHE WILL BE ABLE TO GO TO CHURCH ON SUNDAY, WITH HER FAMILY AND SING GODS PRAISES, WITHOUT A CONSCIENCE OF WHAT HELL SHE HAS PUT HER SISTER AND HER PARENTS THROUGH THIS LAST WEEK. STAY STRONG TOOTSIE WE ARE THINKING OF YOU, AND WE KNOW WE WILL DO WHAT WE CAN TO HELP. DO YOU HEAR THAT AMELIA? THE DEVIL WONT WIN HERE. MOM AND DAD.

Sonia said...

Hi Tootsie,

Sorry about your sister...we have a family member who doesn't take his meds either..so tragic and such a waste of talent.

Best to you dear,

Miss Bloomer/Sonia

Becca's Dirt said...

So sorry to read this Tootsie. It is horrible when family does this and causes such pain to their loved ones. I am praying for you and your family. Stay strong.

I take my meds because I know the consequences of not taking them. I never want to feel like I am out of control ever again.

Justine said...

Ugh, Glenda I don't know what tricks Terry is up to now, but the girl obviously needs serious help. She's obviously not blogging though, so that's a good thing. Unless she has ANOTHER blog you're not aware of?

I'm a little confused by one of the comments left here. I'm sure you know what I'm saying.

Justine :o )

marty (A Stroll Thru Life) said...

Oh Tootsie, you are so special and so precious. I am so sorry for this trial in your life. I will keep you all in prayer. Love you. Hugs, Marty

Troy said...

I hate it when reality interferes with blogville. This is where I escape from the stress of the daily life, and enjoy the fun things.

Hopefully you will have this all resolved soon so you can do the same.

Troy

Kim said...

Tootsie, this stinks. You know that we are ALL here for you. I once had to have a close family member arrested so I can relate. It's a horrible thing and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. If you ever wanna talk, please just let me know.
xoxo,
Kim

Anonymous said...

What you are doing is slander and defamation with intent to harm...I have checked out my rights over what you are trying to do...stop it right now or you will find your untruths landing your own ass in jail! Maybe you would like to make a retraction before this happens? I have made a copy of this recent blog you posted and am ready to show it to my local detachment....make the right choice and clean it up!

Tootsie said...

and now you go anonymous??? go away Terry...all I asked was a favor...stop it now.
Should you decide not to leave me alone...it is you that will have issues...the proof is all over the place.

trash talk said...

Toots, this just breaks my heart to read. I'll keep you in my prayers for this to end. In the meantime, please visit The Hillbilly Debutante (she's on my sidebar). She has a book that is just about to be published detailing her experiences with a stalker trying to take over her life and the extreme measures involved. I think she would be able to give you some real help. I will be giving you all my thoughts and love.
Debbie

HeatherF1 said...

Nothing like having to air the family laundry, huh?! Wishing you luck and that things calm down...Isn't family so much fun? Note my sarcasm.

Dirt Princess said...

Well isn't karma a BITCH!!!!! Wow! I can honestly say that I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!! Fellin the love from mom and dad! LOVE IT!!! She has beat you down for sooooooo long! I love her post about you! HILARIOUS! You have NEVER said anything about this matter on blog, this is the first time. Talk about slander! What about all the emails she sent to YOUR friends! Hello!!! Your mom and dad didn't have anything to do with you because of the BS lies she was fillinf their heads with!

It is just so stupid! People need to focus on their own lives, and not worry about what anyone else does! If everyone only worried about themselves the world would be a happier place. Your life is not her concern, or anyone elses for that matter. It is your life!

At the end of the day we have to answer for our own actions, and only ONE person can judge us, and that is the ONLY person we need to answer to!

YaYa's Funhouse said...

Tootsie, When I first started I like so many thought this was some kind of joke, but obviously it is NOT>
I am so sorry you and your family are having to deal with this. I will remember you in my prayers. Stay stong.

Happy To Be/ Gl♥ria said...

Toots I came by here this morning left a comment and got bumped off...my internet took a dump...anyhoo this sucks pond water girl..
Terry take your meds and give it a rest girl...You have 5 kids that need you whole...She won't dare email me girl...I'm so sorry this is happening to you with all the real life things you have going on and this is just another rock on your pile to deal with...Give those babies a hug from me...OH and WAY to go Toots Mama...
Terry put it to bed, take your pills and read your bible...find me the passage where it says its OK to sleuth your sister...God Bless you Terry as you really need it ...Much love and support to you Glenda...Hugs and smiles Gl♥ria

AshTreeCottage said...

I am so sorry. I will keep you in my prayers.

Love,
Susan and Bentley
xxoo

CiNdEe said...

I am so sorry. I know how hard this is. I do understand. I pray she gets the help she needs. (((hugs))) Hang in there it will work out Im sure!

Behind My Picket Fence said...

Tootsie, my heart is hurting for you. I had hoped your life was calming down but obviously not. I noticed you weren't blogging as much so I guess we know why. Hope you can feel my long distance hugs and feel my prayers.

9405018--Pat said...

Tootsie....so sorry my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Stay strong...Pat H

Anonymous said...

To every one out in blogland, and tootsie time followers, this is Amelias mother. Amelia, I am thrilled that you got over 700 visits, Ill just bet you also got 700 nasty comments, that you couldnt publish too. You truly are showing your colors girl. Still throwing your tantrum, just like you did the day you left from our house. You did not leave because we were beeking your sister and you couldnt stand it, you left because, you had a tantrum over the little tin wall handing you gave us, in the summer and we had not hung it yet! You couldnt shut up even though I begged you to, you went on and on. You werent there for months and months, putting up with us in our house, I was us putting up with YOU! and you were only here for a few weeks. You are in financial trouble that is why you were here working. What mother would leave 5 children for 3 weeks, for any other reason, them phoning every day crying for you to come home. Oh and yes we did give you a car also, Also we did give you 800.00 for a corespondence course to do some nursing thing which you only did one lesson and the money was in the garbage for us, remember, youre real good at wasteing. We paid for two wedding for you, as your inlaws both times somehow managed to weasel out of helping, also,we made all your house payments for you until you got married, as you splandered any money that you had saved, from your lifeinsurance, and how many times did we dig you out of a mess, when you were almost destitute. Then there are all those free shoes, 5 kids each needed 2 pairs of runners, 1 pair of church shoes, new winter boots every year, because heaven forbid you cant do hand-me-downs. Then there are the sandals, the holeys, and the dirt shoes, shoes for mommie and daddie, and fashion boots, and purses etc. etc. at least easily 30-35 pairs of shoes a year FREE! And you are the most ungreatful person alive. You have the nerve to run your dad and mom into the dirt, when you are lower than dirt. Tootsie paid for every pair of shoes she ever got. Oh and do I need remind you, that you are NOT A NURSE? and your husband is NOT A PILOT? so dont call yourself the aviators wife. Oh I forgot, you also dont have a single friend! Tell me what did you really do to your first mother inlaw, that made her beat you up? What did you really do to your grandmother who just came home with a triple by pass, and she BEAT you up. Your new inlaws hated you for years, WHY? You dont get along with your husbands sisters, two wont even talk to you. Your pastor stopped talking to you, and you phillipeno friends ditched you, why, one of your exfriends keyed your car, your on your third church and even you phyco friend Debra has dumped you, so lets not be too harsh on other people. As you say lest ye be judged. I am ashamed of your behavior, You are throwing a tantrum, because no one is listening to you. Your husband is a coward, or he would have stopped you from humiliating your self across the whole world. For your own good, Please stop, and quit making such as ass out of yourself, before you have no self esteem left. MOM!

Tootsie said...

please friends...
PUT PRAYERS OUT THERE FOR MY SISTER,AS SHE GETS WORSE AS THE DAYS GO BY, YOU CAN ONLY WONDER WHAT IT IS LIKE FOR HER OWN FAMILY.PLEASE PRAY FOR HER.

Tootsie said...

TERRY MOM AND DAD AND I STILL LOVE YOU EVEN THOUGH WE ARE THE BILE IN YOUR LIFE. WE HOPE YOU GET BETTER SOON.

La Petite Gallery said...

Well Tootsie, I just did a post on Lunatic asylums, You know, Insane asylums..
There is nothing more sobering to a loonie than a good look at what is waiting for them.
That should straighten her hair.
She better get back on the Meds,
if she doesn't GOD HELP HER.

katfish said...

Hi Tootsie,

Sorry to hear about these difficulties, I will pray for you all.

No one deserve to be harrassed and forced to live on the edge of your nerves because of some else's problem...if there is a problem they need to fix it,a good place to start is by taking medication prescribed by their Doctor.

Extra prayers going out for those who are choosing to live toxic lives, God help them.

Take care friend!